17:34 Mar 22 2014
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The rules below are not my 'OWN little cam rules'. The rules are the same rules Cancer has established, and have been enforced, since the cams started. It isn't a secret that there is a terms of service link found on the bottom of the cam page, a terms of service for the site found on the bottom of every page and the Vampire Rave manual. Perhaps if people would take a moment to familiarize themselves with them, there wouldn't be such issues with the rules being broken.
It seems that some of those who do not follow the ToS and get reprimanded for it quite a bit, tend to want to blame someone other than themselves for the actions they have taken. No one forced you to break the rules. When you break the rules, there are the repercussions. Those are something you have to deal with since you've made those choices. Grow up, grow a set and start taking responsibility for your actions. No one is to blame but you.
Enforcing the rules doesn't make Images nor I 'power hungry full of shit whores'. It doesn't mean that we 'play favorites' because some people cannot handle themselves and constantly are in trouble. Cancer trusted us with these positions, and if he would have thought we would abuse the position he entrusted us with, you can damn well bet neither one of us would be in the volunteer positions that we are in.
Just because some people want to act like spoiled children and always have things their way and whine about so and so being mean to them, doesn't mean that the administration, or the team members, are playing favorites by not doing anything. It means that you need to act like a grown adult use the features provided to you and stop throwing tantrums. Unless it breaks ToS, no one is going to get involved. Did you happen to skip over this tidbit in the FAQ section?
17.So-and-So was mean to me! I want you to delete their account!
Administrators will not become involved in member disputes. If you find a member offensive, use your block button. All messages from the blocked user will be blocked, along with any comments they may leave on your Profile or Portfolio. Do not ask for a member to be deleted or reprimanded. You will be ignored if you ask.
When you really look, you can find a whole bunch of nifty things in the Faq sections, the manual and the terms of service.
This brings me around to something else- I do not like kiss ass two faced people. By this I mean someone who will come into an area, even go out of their way to be in that area, where you are in be nice to you. While they are off running their mouth and agreeing with shitty things other people say. Here's a tip- I have more respect for people who don't like me and aren't nice to me, than those who try to be nice to me to keep on my good side so they don't get in trouble because they constantly break ToS. Don't kiss my ass with sunshine and rainbows, and then pee on my leg and tell me its the rain. This is a constant thing, which is why I tend to stay away from people like this. I'm not stupid, even though some tend to think I am.
Now, anyone who isn't blocked is more than welcome to 'give me a piece of their mind' or to 'let me hear the truth'- either in my comments or either in personal messages. (Did you ever notice that saying only tends to come about when someone isn't around for it to happen.). No it isn't against ToS. No, you cannot get suspended for it. Just like everyone else, if I don't want to deal with a member, then I block them.
The only reason why I decided to say something was because I received a screen shot in my inbox yesterday. Course, seeing who was involved doesn't surprise me in the least with their record on here.
COMMENTS
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Vampirewitch39
17:46 Mar 22 2014
Agree with all of this.
WickedWitch
19:37 Mar 22 2014
I do solemnly swear I will never pee on your leg.
And I love the journal post!
Nekirena
20:07 Mar 22 2014
Thank you. ;)
DepravedSoul
20:33 Mar 22 2014
All very true. Though some will still ignore it all and play innocent.
Oh...-looks around- BTW,you are still my little grope monkey!
Raspberry
21:17 Mar 22 2014
This is what happens when you skip over the "I agree" section of websites when you join up, folks.
Srsly, how can you not read the website's rules, or think that they don't apply? It's literally written in black and white, in a way that you'd think even the stupidest person could understand.
Isis101
23:00 Mar 22 2014
AMEN!!!
So...when are YOU gonna' get back on cam anyway?
deathnitegrl
16:56 Mar 23 2014
You can't play with fire and then cry that you got burnt.